If I've been hearing God saying anything to me lately, it's
been to plug in more regularly with him. With Jesus. I heard a talk recently
about spiritual pathways, the seven to nine different ways (depending on who
you read) that people can connect with God. It wasn't hard to identify myself
as a contemplator and an intellectual: I experience God most when I am thinking
and reflecting, usually involving journaling and solitude, and when I discover
a new concept or learn something I didn't know, usually through exegetical
sermons or Bible study. It wasn't difficult to identify Dave as a naturalist:
he always feel close to God in nature. The last moment I can think of where we
were both awed by nature together was on high sand dunes in a park in the outer
banks, and it was as memorable spiritually as it was aesthetically.
But knowing how important it is to connect with God, and
even how to do it, it's amazing how little we do. We hear about him, sing about
him, read about the Bible more than we actually read the Bible and personally
encounter him each day. We pray as if we're talking to ourselves more than spend
time in true listening dialogue. If we transcribed our prayers, we'd probably
be astonished at how self-centered, rote, or devoid of sincere meaning they
sometimes are.
I heard about a study that found that people who read their
Bibles less than four times a week had outward lives that were
indistinguishable from non-believers. The magic number appeared to be four or
more times a week. How often do you read? Are you following Jesus, or your
notion of Jesus? Are you growing closer to him every day, or do you not think
about him at all most days? Do you ever ask him where he wants you to go in
life this day, or two decades from now, or do you pretty much make those
decisions on your own and get nominal approval from him?
Sometimes we can get through life seemingly fine without
being aware of our relationship with Jesus at all. Then sometimes we have
difficult experiences that make it obvious where we stand with Jesus. I find
parenting to be one of those experiences-- it is, as a friend once pointed out,
a spiritually formative experience. You are going to know where you stand with
Jesus whether you want to or not. You can't get by in the end on your own
strength of will, or intellectual knowledge: you'll get broken down
eventually--it might be the fifth tantrum, or the seventh sleepless night, or
the same daily battle to get your kids to eat or dress, but eventually it will
become obvious whether you've been coasting on your own powers or are bearing
true spiritual fruit.
I think we as caregivers can forget that we need to relate
with Jesus. Just for his sake, just for our sake, not for the sake of anyone
else. When I experience his love, when I connect with him, when I read the
Bible, I have something to draw on through the day. I have this mental image of
a garden, where I have to go if I want to bear any fruit. Most of the gardens
in the Bible are fruit gardens. I was reminded last week that Judas knew where
to find Jesus because that garden was a place he had often gone to before—a
place Jesus went to connect with his Father. And of course, when he rose, Mary
first walks with him in a garden. How do you most naturally connect with God?
What has he been saying to you today?
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